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Women Social Issues
The Wrong Choices
that Lebanese Women make - Part Two
Following the success of "The Wrong Choices that Lebanese Women make - Part One", and after receiving so many insightful comments, a sample of which is posted below, Nada, the Lebanese Matchmaker, sent me another poignant message to post and capitalize on the momentum gained from the first article in the hope of breaking the cycle of mediocrity, confusion, misconception and lifetime suffering by many Lebanese women who "should know better" by now.
A small sample of Interesting excerpts from comments received
"I like your "Women's Issues" a lot. I think you hit the proverbial nail on the head. Would love to discuss this in detail with you as well." - Cheffie (female)
"I liked the article... I found it to be quite interesting and insightful... I agree 100% with the sentiments of the article that the "hot boy toy" types are nothing but trouble and not the type of men women looking to have a relationship/marry should try to pursue." - Apara (female)
"I enjoyed reading about you, i wish i knew about you when i was single...I loved the article about the wrong choices leb women made... this is the main reason i married a latin lady." - George (male)
"oh dear god. that is really me for years. thank you for an eye opener. all i want now is one good lebanese man to be happy with. i am sick and tired of making the same mistakes and chasing dogs" - Layla (female)
A Message from Nada,
Looks and age are only two out of 100 criteria to consider when finding a good Lebanese husband... If you restrict your search only to Lebanese men who meet those two criteria (young age and good looks) instead of opening your mind and heart to other Lebanese men who may not match these two criteria exactly but have great qualities among the other 98 dimensions, you run a very high risk of marrying, and later getting trapped for life inside a loveless marriage with a young, gorgeous and hot man with no substance... no stability... no morals... and nothing else that can truly hold your marriage together.
You run a high risk of being verbally and emotionally abused, cheated on, devastated and heartbroken with emotional and self esteem scars that will last you a lifetime. Is this what you really want for your marriage? to put yourself in a position where your Lebanese husband cheats on you with your best girlfriend and leaves you in a state of shattered hope and a sense of utter betrayal"
My Final Words: My sincere advice to you is not to get caught up in "pre-conceived" notions of false fantasies... and focus only on what truly matters in a good marriage; and that means you only need to look for stability... a good heart...and a good mind... everything else is secondary!" - Nada, The Lebanese Matchmaker
The Lebanese Matchmaker
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